[Anarchafeminists] Transcript of amazing speech given at Hackney Pride 2010.

[butterflea at riseup.net]

http://salivaclick.blogspot.com/2010/09/hackney-pride-speech.html

Transcript of a speech given at Hackney Pride 2010. One paragraph that was
omitted from the actual speech for reasons of length is included below in
square brackets.

"My name is Jasper Murphy and I have a vagina. I'm involved in East London
Community Activism but today I'm here to speak “as a trans person” about
transgender issues. The term “transgender” is a broad term that refers to
to a massive spectrum of people who in some way veer away from the gender
written on their birth certificate. So, I cannot, in any way whatsoever,
be representative of transgendered people. I can only talk about the world
as I see it, from where I'm standing, as a transexual.

I'm a lucky tranny. First of all because I'm alive. And secondly because I
have a family who loves me. That shouldn't be lucky, but at the moment, it
is. My own experience is quite unique so I thought I’d give you a quick
history: At 3 years old my first sentence was “I'm a boy”, at 7 years old
when I was still convinced that this was true, my parents took me to a
psychologist. The psychologist said I probably have “Gender Dysphoria”. My
parents talked to my school and allowed me to cut my hair and wear a boy's
uniform. When I was 8 I was referred on to a specialist in London (on the
NHS) who I saw until I was 18. When I was 12 I legally changed my name
which my granny paid for. So I've been living as male since I was about 7
or 8. I went through a full female puberty and eventually got testosterone
when I was 21. I had surgery when I was 22. I'm 24 now so I've looked like
this for about 2 years.

It’s not my intention to simple ask for a complacent acceptance of trans
people- for people to just stop insulting us and beating us up... I want
to talk about transphobia as an issue that affects all of us- and that we
can all play a part in fighting. We must, as a society, be better at
gender.

In the womb we all start off as female. People who come out as little boys
are changed during the pregnancy when testosterone is introduced. The
clitoris grows and becomes penis, and the labia becomes a scrotum. Woman
are so-called because they're meant to be like men, but with wombs-
womb-man. But in reality, men are women with big clitorises. Bigclits.
Most people come out with either a vagina or a penis, but some people are
somewhere inbetween- these people are 'intersex'. As soon as we're born
boys and girls are treated drasticallly differently- boys are given lego,
girls are given dolls (and then people wonder about the lack of female
engineers); girls are encouraged to care and talk about their feelings,
whilst boys are told to be tough. Every boy and girl, to some extent, has
to grapple with the difference between who they are, and what a Real Man
is. What a Real Woman is. Every body suffers from the invention of the Man
and the Woman. And I consider myself an extreme casualty of this- I don't
really consider myself a Man- but I know, violently, that I'm not a woman.
I think that transpeople generally are an extreme casualty of this
problem.

Society is organised into men and women and I don't fit into either. If I
were to have to go to prison, I could either be a man in an all female
prison, or a man with a vagina in an all male-prison where privacy is not
exactly a priority. If I were to be arrested and strip-searched I've got a
choice between a male officer or a female police officer. But I'm not a
man, that is not my sex, I am a transexual. There is now a Gender
Recognition Certificate so that I can be recognised as either a Man or a
Woman by the state. But I am not a Man or a Woman, I am a transexual. I
could be treated as a man, go to a male prison, be searched by a male
officer, get married to a woman. But I don't want to get married, I don't
want to live in a society where people are sent to prison and strip
searched by police. I don't believe in leading a fight where we're asking
the government to deal with us more efficiently, to oppress us better. I
don't want to be integrated better a rotten system, I want something
different altogether. I want to take part in creating a better world.

Prejudice against transmen, that's me, is based on the sense that we're
trying to muscle in on the privilege of being male that we don't deserve,
we are inadequate, we don't have penises, and if we do, they're either
weird and tiny or crap. We're inadequate men, with big bums and crap
willies.

Prejudice against transwomen is based on the sense that they're degrading
themselves, they're funny, a joke, why would you want to be a woman?
They're trying to take a step down in society.

So transphobia is rooted in sexism. Some people believe that transwomen
can't possibly know what it's like to be a woman because they haven't
experienced sexism. But the transphobia that transwoman get IS sexism,
multiplied by a hundred!

Some people say that trans men are just trying to escape sexism by turning
into men. Let me tell you, when you're a transexual, you do not escape
sexism, you are pushed right into an enormous swamp of sexism. When you
experience both sides and more, you begin to see the sexism, you notice it
when other people don't, when you play with gender you're witnessing the
flow of power.

Sexism, and more specifically this form of sexism which is a reaction to
people’s gender deviance- not being a Proper Man, or a Proper Woman, is
something that seems to be ignored. It plays a huge part in homophobia- A
gay boy, who is very masculine and handy with his fists is not likely to
be bullied at school. School kids don't usually see what their school
mates find sexually attractive, they see how they behave. Effeminate boys
are bullied for being effeminate- and the words the kids use are gay, and
batty boy, but they're being bullied because they're not acting like Real
Men, this is sexism, but we call it homophobia. And when you call it
homophobia, what organisations are there helping the effeminate straight
boy? He's being told that it's okay to be gay, but no one's saying that
it's okay to be a bit girly. This is the same bullying that transexual
people experience in the extreme, but it is in no way reserved for us.

The experience of transgendered people is at the lethally sharp end of the
wedge- and it is a lethally sharp edge, the Transgender Day of Remembrance
website shows that in 2009 130 transgendered people were reported
murdered- but this is a universal problem, rooted in sexism, it affects
all os us and we can all take a part in fighting it.

[The invention of the Real Man and the Real Woman is enshrined in the
economy. For as long as someone has to work all week to get a wage, to
survive, and for as long as we have babies that have to be looked after,
someone else has to work in the home, and bring up babies for free. At the
moment, most of the time, the man works full time and the woman works for
free in the home. It's the unpaid labour that keeps the whole system
running. Take it away, and the whole thing collapses. But that won't
change by messing around with gender, or by swapping it around and turning
the patriarchy into a matriarchy, or mixing it up, or by taking turns...
or by paying another woman minimum wage to do the job instead. For as long
as this system keeps going, someone has to work in the home for free. And
this is one of the most fundamental injustices the forms the foundation of
our economy. As much as transgendered people might highlight that these
are not two unchanging natural roles, a liberal plea for tolerance is not
the force that will bring it down.]

I want to come back to this idea that we need to, as a society, as a
community, be better at gender. The transition from one gender role to
another is not just about surgery, in fact surgery plays a very small role
in it. For the most part, transition is social, because gender roles are
social. As I mentioned before, I lived for 12 years as male without any
surgery or hormones whatsoever. I now fit into the category of male
because people call me ‘he’ and regard me as male. The fact that
transition is social seems to be lost on most people, when someone comes
out as trans, people tend to wait until that person is manly, or womanly,
enough to convince them. The onus is put on the trans person to “act like
a man” or “act like a woman” just to have their identity respected. This
often means, that for transmen, we are rewarded for acting like macho
idiots, for only then will people respect our identity. It should be
everyone’s responsibility to respect someone’s identity, to play a part in
the journey to becoming comfortable in their skin.

What is it we want with our Pride Marches and our activism?

The freedom to walk down the street, dressed how you like, kissing who you
like, in a couple of expensive areas of central and west London? What
about kissing in Clapton? Stratford? East Ham? What about being free in
our working class communities where we actually live? When will we be free
to express our love, our gender, our bodies without fear of being beaten
up by gangs of teenage boys? And what about those teenage boys? Our
neighbours? When will that teenage boy feel free to suck off his mate, or
wear a dress, without fear of complete rejection or without thinking that
that would make him an entirely different person?

It might be tempting, for those middle class homosexuals who have achieved
their freedom, who are happily walking hand in hand down their little
street in Hampstead, to pull the ladder up behind them and not be
associated with transgenders, with us deviants, or with us working class
queers in areas like Hackney, who still live surrounded by homophobia,
transphobia, sexism. I think we can see that temptation when we look at
what London Pride has become. And that’s why it’s important to have events
like this, to keep our grassroots activism, and not accept anything less
than absolute and complete freedom."