<html><head></head><body style="word-wrap: break-word; -webkit-nbsp-mode: space; -webkit-line-break: after-white-space; ">Hi Kate, Thanks <i>so</i> much for letting me know what happened!! I'm not sure why but I feel much better now that I've heard from you. In the grand scheme of things it's no biggie, so you can let yourself off the hook!<div><br></div><div>So, is the next meeting in SF on the 27th?? And it's supposed to start at 7:30? Confirm that for me if you can (or give me the correct info) -- I'll make sure the other two folks also know about it, and hopefully they will come again. </div><div><br></div><div>Cheers - Jessica</div><div><br></div><div><br><div><div>On Mar 14, 2013, at 9:56 PM, Kate DeGraaf wrote:</div><br class="Apple-interchange-newline"><blockquote type="cite"><div>Hey,<br>So I did go to CIIS the other night. I'm feeling like a crazy person<br>right now because I showed up for 7 pm, and I came with notes for<br>facilitation and everything, showed up 5 minutes early and waited for<br>20 minutes for people to show up. I was so sad that I was all alone<br>and I went to the city for nothing. After getting these emails I<br>realized that I showed up too early and I am super embarrassed that I<br>spaced on a meeting time that I was supposedly organizing. Many<br>apologies. Just for the record, we have been meeting regularly and<br>usually there are other people besides me that have facilitated<br>meetings in the past. I really don't know how I spaced on the time<br>that badly, but it happened. Please bear with me. I really am an<br>organized person 90% of the time.<br><br>Kate<br><br>On Thu, Mar 14, 2013 at 12:01 AM, Jessica Zane <<a href="mailto:jeszane@gmail.com">jeszane@gmail.com</a>> wrote:<br><blockquote type="cite">Hi All,<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">I'm sending this out to both list serves because I'm not really sure who to<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">send this note to.<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">I went to the SF Icarus meeting tonight... and there were two other people,<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">also new (it was their first meeting, my third, counting two Oakland meets I<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">attended). No one else came. I shared with them how the format was in the<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">Oakland meeting and we ended up doing a check-in with one another and then<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">left early. I'm glad the three of us connected.<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">I'm not angry or upset but I do think it's really bad form to organize a<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">meeting and then not have anyone from the core group show up. Luckily none<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">of us were particularly in immediate crisis, or anything like that.<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">I really get that this is a grassroots sort of thing and shit happens. I'm<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">also big on self-care and responsibility stuff so I hope this doesn't sound<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">like a blaming thing. I'm just a little concerned about one person who came<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">to the meeting, who had confirmed by email, someone who is brand new to<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">Icarus, and also really new on "the journey."<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">I would love to hear from the organizers of the SF meeting about what<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">happened, it would be nice to know and I can communicate with the other two<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">people - I want them to feel like they can connect again with Icarus. And in<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">the future, maybe there's a way to put a note on the meeting room door that<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">says something like "sorry but we had to cancel the meeting at the last<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">moment." Something like that?<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">Thanks -<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">- Jessica<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">________________<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">Jessica Zane<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite">603/852-3498<br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><a href="mailto:jeszane@gmail.com">jeszane@gmail.com</a><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><br></blockquote></div></blockquote></div><br><div>
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